You found love, and then, all of a sudden, it is gone. Your boyfriend told you that it is over, and he doesn’t love you anymore. But still, there is this feeling that everything is just a mistake, a misunderstanding. Something more than intuition tells you this: it is your heart. You believe that what you had deserves another chance, and you have this little feeling, that he knows this is true. Most of the time you are wondering “Will my ex boyfriend come back to me?” and so you look for signs: in his actions, his words…everything.
People say that you can see right through a person’s heart by his actions, especially through his eyes. This is true. Each gesture he did, even the smallest ones, means something, and you would know what it means, if you pay a little more attention. Even if your ex is dating somebody new, sometimes, you’d still see signs that he misses you, and the things that you do together, especially if his present girlfriend is unable to give those things to him. There is a whole subject about this body language, but I am here to talk about only the most basic things.
The most important and powerful action is done through eye contact. People can speak through their eyes, either deliberately, or without their knowledge. Try getting eye contact, and see how long he returns the look. There is no exact seconds that you should count, but you would know through intuition how long is sufficient to say that he longs (but of course, if you two are alone, and you are looking at each other for more than 30 seconds, then don’t just stare, UNLEASH YOUR PASSION!). Show him, through your eyes, how you love him still, and watch how his eyes respond. Do this every now and then until he makes a move, or when you think it is the right time to talk about intimate matters. The next ones are minor things on answering your question, “Will my ex boyfriend come back to me?”
Next are his hands. When a person’s hands, especially his fingers, can’t stay put, then it means that his heart is pumping wildly while talking to you. Either he still has feelings for you, or he killed somebody in the alleyway he just came out when you saw him.
Now this is the most important catalyst of all: his smile. You can differentiate a smile from a special smile. You must look for hints in his cheeks, his eyes, his gestures…everything…whenever he smiles to you.
Of course there are a lot more signs that you could possibly think of, but simple intuition is enough to know if his actions meant that he want to be with you again or not. But be wary of great actors, who fake things: they use body language to get what they want. Still it is natural to ask “Will my ex boyfriend come back to me?” after a failed relationship, especially when your heart tells you that he still loves you.
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